From Seth
"Because I said so," ends our inquiry, shuts the door and disrespects the questioner, all at the same time.
Explaining what we need and why allows us to engage. It creates a connection of mutual respect.
When an authority figure refuses to explain 'why', he is showing fear (because he's not sure why) and contempt (because he doesn't have to care).
We'd prefer to engage with a human, every time.
So very true! I completely endorse that giving the reason creates an empowered work place and aligns future thoughts and decisions.
ReplyDeleteOn a lighter note, the "argumentative Indian" sometimes just needs a firm "because I said so" to conclude a never ending discussion!