The lil gestures

The things in life which touch you somewhere deep in your soul.

Day before... early morning, diksha and I had a spat. And as can happen at such times there are things said which can hurt. It may not be intended, is likely  expression of frustration, anger, ones own low spaces........emotions, yet the hurt will happen, and can sometimes go pretty deep.

Nothing rational about it. But then who says we live only in rational space, right? 

It passes (mostly?), but then these lil gestures make a world of difference. The thought, the expression, the effort towards understanding really helps. Needs to go both ways, 'expression' of, as also 'receiving' of. 

And this was a beautiful instance in example. She said it with all the things I love...flowers, chocolates and words. Any one of those might have done the job, and this one time I loved 'overdone'. 

And from a couple notches down, that moment took the space so many notches up.

Sure, life goes on..it will with w.h.a.t.e.v.e.r.  It's what it takes to enhance, that's the space I love :)